Ahn Jae Hyun and Goo Hye Sun’s Marriage Rulebook Heavily Divides The Internet

Excessive or bare minimum?

Actress Goo Hye Sun (also known as Koo Hye Sun) and actor Ahn Jae Hyun‘s marriage has become a hot topic among netizens, particularly after the actress publicly slammed him for making light of their divorce on TV programs.

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Goo Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun | Yonhap

The actress’s scathing Instagram post has sparked many speculations, including that she felt “triggered” by the mentions of her ex-husband’s dating life.

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Amid this chatter, pictures showing the “rules” decided upon by the two actors during their marriage have resurfaced online, sparking heated debate. The photos featured handwritten notes, presumably penned down by Goo and Ahn for one another, that outlined what behavior they expected from each other. While the list of rules for Goo was empty, the one for Ahn was extensive.

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Points for Goo Hye Sun to Keep in Mind

  • Nothing

Points for Ahn Jae Hyun to Keep in Mind

  • If you’re drinking outside, drink only until 11 pm.
  • Don’t drink to the point of losing consciousness (do it moderately).
  • Don’t be stubborn.
  • Don’t cause harm to others.
  • Put away your clothes when you take them off.
  • After eating, clean up your food and dishes (don’t pile them in the sink).
  • Put laundry in the laundry room.
  • Even if you’re feeling good because you’re drunk, don’t yell, slap, or use other forms of violence.
  • Come home by midnight (except if you’re filming).
  • Clean up the cat litter box once every seven days.
  • Be careful of what you say (especially what you say about others).
  • Organize your shoes.

— The list of rules in the photo above

This list was once shared by Goo herself on social media when they were in the middle of a very public marital fight.

With the reappearance of this list, netizens are left debating if the expectations in the marriage were too one-sided or if Goo’s list was simply asking for the bare minimum from her husband.

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| Instiz
  • “But isn’t that kind of thing just obvious…? Are those really things that need to be made into rules?”
  • “This is really…”
  • “Honestly, if it were like that, I can see why they got divorced. Some rules are necessary, but you have to adjust to each other — not start off with ‘You can’t do this, you can’t do that…”
  • “Visually, it is tiring to see one side with nothing and the other side full, but if you look at the contents, they’re all just basic things… If those rules were written down because they weren’t being followed in the first place, then in this part, I can understand Goo Hye Sun’s side.”
  • “If those were mutual rules, they’d be understandable, but the problem is that they only applied to one person… Just looking at that and the past controversies, you can kind of imagine what their marriage was like.”
Source: Instiz
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