Korea’s First Lesbian Dating Show Faces Major Controversy As Alleged Ex-Girlfriend Of A Contestant Makes Damning Claim
The newly launched Korean lesbian dating show TogetHer is already facing multiple controversies just days after its premiere.

The latest controversy surrounding this show stems from some sentimental online posts of the alleged ex-girlfriend of Dagyo, one of the seven contestants of TogetHer.

A recent viral post on X (former Twitter) posted about Dagyo’s alleged ex-girlfriend’s claim, stating that she left her suddenly after a long-term relationship. While the ex-girlfriend was under the impression that the breakup was her fault, she is now convinced that it was because Dagyo wanted to appear on the dating show.
Dagyo, who left her long-term gf to appear on the show, her ex said: " We suddenly broke up, I thought it was my fault, so I've let her go, now everything makes sense" … She added: "I was excited for the show, but now I can't stop crying."#ToGetHer #너의연애 #GL pic.twitter.com/NSAR9svFWN
— 이보라 (@lee__bo_ra) April 25, 2025
The OP (original poster) also included the matching “lovestagram” photos of the alleged ex with Dagyo as evidence of their past relationship.


This accusation has created a heated debate in the show’s already sizable audience. Some have shown sympathy for this alleged ex-lover, criticizing Dagyo in the process.
Imagine being broken up with and thinking it’s your fault to see a lesbian show to cheer you up and your ex is on there talking about never having found ‘true love’ oh— id be sick 😭 https://t.co/YIvr2sW3zX
— 💜 (@HazzaGucci) April 25, 2025
Female in male dominated field 💀. But this is painful & fack up. Got dumped because your partner wanted to join a "dating show" is bad & undeserved. I feel sad for her. You can love hard but then 1 day you get heartbroken for the stupidest reason that not even your fault.
WTH https://t.co/BJoYxIZd6D— A. (@thatqueermufan1) April 26, 2025
imagine being excited to watch the first lesbian dating show in ur country, only to find out that your ex who randomly broke up with you is searching for true love on the show…. the start of a villain origin story https://t.co/Q9RgqdlTlo
— soumi | semi ia (@Ioonazula) April 26, 2025
However, many have also taken Dagyo’s side, arguing that taking everything her ex might be saying at face value was not a logical thing to do.
after all of these bitter ex scandals on indo sapphictwt, i cant help but feeling skeptical over this kind of thing lmaoo
the show might not b the reason why she broke up w her ex knowing we got no idea ab their whole story. she also didnt cheat, therefore idt we should judge https://t.co/GpodkCuTRn
— aime (@lovuetts) April 25, 2025
always take news like this with a grain of salt, for all we know they had problems for a while & this is the ex getting revenge etc etc, Dagyo hasn’t done anything wrong as far as we know https://t.co/mqyrOTBOMQ
— 🥽 vibes 🥽 (@InPlainSight5) April 26, 2025
im down for the mess but we do not know if she left the gf to appear on the show like it could be just a petty ex making shit up to make her look bad https://t.co/8IhNWl1uT9
— j (@wwxslgbt) April 26, 2025
Neither Dagyo, nor the show’s production team has responded to the claim as of yet.
Meanwhile, the show has also gotten into controversies over other issues regarding the participants. You can read more about it here:\
Shocking Age Gap Between Contestants On Korea’s First Lesbian Dating Show Sparks Outrage
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