BTS’s RM Makes Heartbreaking Comments About Hardships In The Military — Sparking Major Anger

BTS RM‘s heartbreaking comments about the hardships he faced in the military have led to backlash towards the system and HYBE.

During his time in the military, RM made it clear that he was looking forward to being discharged, which made netizens speculate that he might have had a negative experience.
BTS RM’s Instagram Story Exposes Reality Of His Military Service
On June 10, RM and V were discharged.
When RM was discharged, netizens shared concerns about the idol’s well-being, including his experience in the military.
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Following the discharge, RM also did a solo live where he chatted to fans.
During the broadcast, RM was brutally honest about his experience, sharing that amid issues with HYBE, he had major insomnia, which was seemingly made worse by the conditions he was staying in, as he recalled what it was like rooming with 20 other soldiers.
아 진짜 마음 찢어질 것 같다…
작년 4-5월(ㅆㅂ)에 한창 시끄러웠던 일 때문에 불면증이 생겼는데 '진짜 죽겠구나' 생각이 들 정도로 못 잤대…… pic.twitter.com/KOfUCHPoCr— 슙기력☁️ (@Un_4021) June 10, 2025
Last year, the company went through a lot of things, and around April and May, before ‘RPWP’ came out, I was struck with insomnia. The thing is, in the military, you’re sleeping with 20 other guys. They’re sleeping right next to you, snoring and grinding their teeth. So… There was a time when I did not get a single minute of sleep for two days, for about 78 hours. That was toward the end of April. I mean, there were a lot of things happening outside the base. I remember thinking to myself, ‘Oh, I’m going to die at this rate.’ Like, I have to keep going with the daily schedule, but I’m running on no sleep. I’d be lying down and—those of you who have insomnia know what I’m talking about. I’m tired but I just can’t fall asleep.
— RM
RM also shared the impact his feelings in the military had, asking himself why he was so “weak” because of how he was feeling, adding that he kept thinking that he’d been through worse and more challenging times.
내 알엠이 군대가 너무 힘들었나봐
너 왜 이렇게 나약해 / 너 이것밖에 안돼? /너 더 숱한 고생 많이 했잖아 이거는 내 알엠이 정신병어긋작업하실때로 돌아가셨었대잖아…. pic.twitter.com/uobL83fz4V— 연간 (@r23mw) June 10, 2025
Not that I’ve ever had it easy because I was born a bit sensitive. Yeah, I’ve accepted it. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m sensitive. While in the military, I kept asking myself, ‘Why are you so weak? Is this all you got? You’ve been through more challenging times already. So why… Why do you keep losing to things like sleep… Or the military…? You have to do better. You used to be so optimistic. You were Mr. Why Not?’ It was a way for me to try to hype myself up, but it doesn’t really work when you’re in the army. But I’m going to come around.
— RM
RM even explained how it’s still impacting him now.
🐨: To be honest I’m still scared of the night even now. I’m scared of the fact that I have to sleep. Lying down and being still for 3 to 4 hours is truly hell.
🐨: Hence even now I’m scared of the night. Also there were a lot of times when I came out on vacation, drank a lot and… https://t.co/pf7PDOz7vr pic.twitter.com/AMwG7fWSJi— 𝓪⁷ (@JlNSONYEONDAN) June 10, 2025
When the clips were posted, netizens shared their sympathy for RM but also anger at the conditions he had to go through, whether it was solely because of the military or links to the issues happening at HYBE, which were seemingly around the same time as the issues with ADOR and Min Hee Jin.
he bares his soul for us and ill never ever take that for granted it takes so much courage to show vulnerability with the world as your audience oh kim namjoon may your days only be filled with happiness from now on
— r (@THEJILF) June 10, 2025
Namjoon said that everything was so unbearable to him to a point he had got severe insomnia, had so much difficulty sleeping, with all the stress too he lived like a zombie to a point he had to visit a neuropsychiatrist, and still hasn't been able to get off the meds.
— 💙 ᴮᴱ바다⁷ 💐 (SLOW) 💙 (@eternalhyyh) June 10, 2025
Namjoon's insomnia developed in April when there was so much going on in HYBE. That shamanic witch MHJ has done irreversible damage. The cult rumors, palagarism allegations and him being the leader and main music creators of BTS, all this must have been so hard for him
— nush⁷ (@namgiseokbase) June 10, 2025
what namjoon is sharing is fucking personal like developing insomnia and being scared of nights i have nothing else to say but fuck forced conscription and the sk govt, not only for namjoon but for everyone who's struggled bc of it, only to gain nothing but trauma and lost time
— ree⁷ (@jkyoongs) June 10, 2025
namjoon's insomnia started between april-may 2024 and we all know what happened then. fxck everyone who made these boys suffer. pic.twitter.com/NPrdlZ6nfS
— ︎ً (@AMETIIIST) June 10, 2025
hearing how much the military affected namjoon’s mental health (and probably the other boys too) makes so angry and sad but also so relieved that they’ve finally overcome this, they’re finally free of this constant burden and stress
— ᥫ᭡ (@Iuvjjkoo) June 10, 2025