3 Times BTS’s Suga Spoke About Relationships And His Ideal Type

Suga shared how he thinks ARMYs would react if BTS started dating.

There have been many moments where the BTS members have spoken about relationships and ideal types. One member who has spoken about these topics several times is Suga.

BTS’s Suga

Here are 3 of these moments.

1. Suga talking about his ideal type

When BTS guested on MBC‘s C-Radio Idol True Colors, they were asked to share their ideal types, and Suga shared that he doesn’t really have an ideal type. However, first impressions are important to Suga, and he would want to get charmed by a girl the first time they meet.

2. Suga’s letter to his ex-girlfriend

In middle school, Suga submitted a letter about his ex-girlfriend to a local radio host.

BTS Suga’s letter about his middle school ex-girlfriend

In the letter, Suga wrote a bit about how he had a crush on a girl and how they got together. He also shared some details of how they eventually broke up.

Recalling my past love…
Year 3 Class 3 No. 13 Min Yoon Gi

Hello, I’m Min Yoon Gi, who lives in Daegu.

I’m embarrassed that I’m writing a letter to a radio that I’ve always listened to. Our Korean language teacher asked us to write a letter that could be sent to a radio.

I was contemplating on what to write, and I decided to write about my past love while reading Hwang Dong Kyu’s ‘Enjoyable Letter.’

3rd year of middle school, it might be a tender age to say that one’s in love. But it was a memory that held my true feelings from those heart-aching memories.

I’m embarrassed to say, but I liked a girl last year in my 2nd year of middle school.

Since I’m very shy, I wasn’t able to talk to her, so we stayed friends.

I became greedier as we got closer. I didn’t want to stay a friend, so I confessed my feelings.

But she said yes when I confessed I liked her.

We ended up dating, but that’s when the problems started. Because I was so shy, I couldn’t act naturally with her now that she was my girlfriend.

I didn’t pay attention to her, and compared to how our relationship was when we were just friends, there was a clear difference. Our relationship became awkward more than anything.

We didn’t date that long, and due to all these problems, she said, let’s just be friends and broke off the relationship. When I heard those words, I felt like a side of my chest was hollow. I felt deserted.

— Suga

After the breakup, Suga began reflecting on the relationship, and he learned some valuable things. He concluded the letter by apologizing and thanking his ex-girlfriend! 

I truly understood where she was coming from when she broke off the relationship, and I went into reflection after that.

I would think about everything I did wrong and how I could better myself. I also think back now about those days and wish I would’ve behaved differently.

If I could go back, I would treat her way better, and I know I could do more for her. I would tell her I loved her and liked her proudly.

Thinking back to those days is hurtful and regretful for me. If she’s hearing me speak this confessional letter, I want to say the following to her.

I am very sorry for treating you that way. You must’ve felt so hurt when I behaved like that. I personally think back and look at it as a good memory now.

Thank you for making that memory with me.

— Suga

3. Suga speaking on BTS dating 

K-Pop idols dating can be a “touchy” topic, as some netizens and “fans” believe that they shouldn’t date. In an interview with Rolling Stone, BTS was asked if they are worried about how ARMYs (BTS’s fandom) will react if they begin dating.


Suga honestly shared that some ARMYs may accept it, while others may not.

The ARMY is a diverse group. In this hypothetical situation, some may accept it, some may not. Whether it’s dating, or something else, they’re all individuals, and they will understand things differently.

— Suga

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